有人问未来10年以后是什么样子？ 这是我2021年写的文章与你分享
如果有一天你的家变成了旅馆。你会怎样?
我家的家庭旅馆房间不多，但却人满为患。所以经常我要问先生: 可不可以让一个学生住到家里来?
先生瞪大了眼睛。
他: 什么? 我的隐私。
我: 其实你还有什么隐私? 谁会在意你的隐私?
他: 什么? 我在意。
我: 对啊。也就只有你自己在意。只有你自己在意的隐私还能称为隐私吗?
只有别人都在意的你的隐私才叫隐私。所以别人不在意的只有你自己在意的不叫隐私。而当你在意你的隐私的时候只能说明: 你老了。
他瞪大眼睛看着我。
我: 你想啊。你年轻的时候会在意和别人合租住在一起吗? 不会。只有老了才会。
他点点头。同意让学生住进来。
我: 我的观点还没说完。我梦想的状态也即将来的状态是，随时提着个箱子离开，说走就走。因为家已经变成了旅馆。你只不过是户主。你走了，别人就过来住。
先生示意我说下去。
我: 以前家是有血缘关系的。每个人知道每个人的过去甚至是未来。现在有个概念叫合租，就是德文WG。就是志趣相投的人住在一起。打破了血缘的纽带。有一天也即未来这个概念再一次被打破:那么家就是旅馆。每个人对于另外一个人没有过去也没有未来，就只有现在。这个状态就是人人向往的恋着爱的状态。couchsurfing，Airbnb等就是往这个方向过渡的状态。有一天全民sharing概念一旦兴起，那么家即是旅馆。
而我们每个人才是真正的过客。也即四海为家。
瑞士鬼子于2021年
瑞士中国人社区整理发布
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At Home Everywhere
Someone asked me how it would look like in 10 years? I share one article that I wrote in 2021.
If one day your home turns into a hotel, what would you do?
My little family guesthouse doesn’t have many rooms, yet it’s always
full. So quite often I have to ask my husband:
“Can we let one more student stay at our place?”
He opens his eyes wide.
Him: “What? My privacy.”
Me: “But what privacy do you still have? Who even cares about your
privacy?”
Him: “What? I care.”
Me: “Exactly. Only you care. But if only you yourself care about
something, can it still be called privacy? Privacy only counts if other
people also recognize it as privacy. If nobody else cares, and you’re
the only one who does, then it isn’t really privacy. And if you insist
on protecting it, it only shows one thing: you’re getting old.”
He stares at me wide-eyed.
Me: “Think about it. When you were young, did you mind sharing a flat
with others? No. Only when you grow older do you start to mind.”
He nods. He agrees to let the student move in.
Me: “But I’m not done yet. My vision — or rather, the state I dream of
and that is soon coming — is this: being able to pick up a suitcase at
any time and just leave. Because the home has already become a hotel. You’re merely the host. You leave, and someone else comes to stay.”
He signals for me to go on.
Me: “In the past, home was bound by blood ties. Everyone knew everyone
else’s past, even their future. Now there’s this concept called
flat-sharing — in German, WG — where like-minded people live together,
breaking the old family bond of blood. One day, and in fact in the near
future, this concept will be broken again: home will become a hotel.
Between people, there is no past and no future — only the present. That
is exactly the state of being in love that everyone longs for: living in
the now. Couchsurfing, Airbnb, and the like are just transitional forms
in this direction. One day, when the idea of universal sharing really
takes hold, then home itself will be a hotel.
And each of us will turn out to be nothing more than a passerby. In
other words: at home everywhere.”
By Swiss Ghost, 2021
瑞士中国人社区整理发布
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